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28th-Jan-2010 02:52 am
Thoughts on what to do with really shy friends? Anyone?
28th-Jan-2010 07:53 am (UTC) - [text, Mizuno Ami, untraceable]
Just respect that. They don't need to change themselves just to suit you.
28th-Jan-2010 08:15 am (UTC) - Re: [text, Mizuno Ami, untraceable]
But he isn't shy around everyone. Or anyone else, really. I think I'm making him nervous somehow.
28th-Jan-2010 08:16 am (UTC) - Re: [text, Mizuno Ami, untraceable]
Then it's not a problem with your friend. It's something you do that makes him unsure. Actually, you're not friends at all if it's just you thinking that, and he's nervous.
28th-Jan-2010 08:25 am (UTC) - Re: [text, Mizuno Ami, untraceable]

I thought we were. I'm friends with his best friend, and we try to include him in things. Maybe I misunderstood.
28th-Jan-2010 08:25 am (UTC) - Re: [text, Mizuno Ami, untraceable]
You misunderstood.

Edited at 2010-01-28 08:26 am (UTC)
28th-Jan-2010 08:29 am (UTC) - Re: [text, Mizuno Ami, untraceable]
I see. Thank you.
29th-Jan-2010 09:09 am (UTC) - [text]
Give them encouragement. Introduce them to new playmates. In some cases, get them drunk.
30th-Jan-2010 04:04 am (UTC) - Re: [text]
His best friend has been trying the first two. That's how we met, which puts me in the 'new playmate' category.

It's really only me he seems nervous around. Someone else has said I might be mistaken in thinking we're friends.
30th-Jan-2010 08:26 am (UTC) - Re: [text]
Maybe. But maybe he really likes you but doesn't know how to deal with it or what to do about it.
30th-Jan-2010 03:52 pm (UTC) - Re: [text]
Likes me? Now that was a possibility that had been so far from crossing Plum's mind it might as well have been mountain climbing in Tibet. Looks like the vacation's almost over.

But then why would he keep running away?
31st-Jan-2010 05:40 am (UTC) - Re: [text]
Maybe he's not accustomed to feeling like that. Maybe he doesn't know how to start a conversation in that direction.

::Maybe he doesn't want to be feeling those things for Plum. Since he's not in the situation in person, it's hard to say.::
31st-Jan-2010 06:39 am (UTC) - Re: [text]
I don't know if I would, either. Most of us weren't designed for that.
31st-Jan-2010 08:20 am (UTC) - Re: [text]
Sometimes design can be transcended. Consider it, you know?
31st-Jan-2010 09:40 am (UTC) - Re: [text]
Yes, I will. Thank you.
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